The effort that goes into planning and preparing for our perfect date is extensive. I ask that you put the same effort in by familiarizing yourself with my personal expectations and etiquette requests. By demonstrating that you have read my guidelines prior to enquiring, you can be sure that I am the right fit for you.

Screening

*Please note this screening process only applies to all Booking Encounter

Screening is for the safety of both of us, all information shared during this process will remain between us. Discretion is very important to me and I respect your privacy as well as my own. When getting in contact please provide one of the following.

•            Two provider references.

•            A form of Photo ID (Name and Picture only)

•            LinkedIn profile.

•            Screening can also be provided through TER and P411.

Deposit

When confirming our date I require a 20% – 30% deposit, this can be paid through various discrete methods that I will share with you during our correspondence.

It is important to note that overnight musings, Travel + FMTY dates require a 50% deposit:

Etiquette

When meeting for the first time the remainder of my donation can be given to me in an envelope. If we are meeting in a public setting, this can be discretely placed in a gift bag or book/notepad.

When meeting for shorter dates I appreciate well groomed  gentlemen. I provide clean shower/washroom facilities where fresh towels, male body wash, mouthwash, deodorant and a disposable toothbrush will be provided.

Deposit Methods and Cancellation Policy

When you contact me have an understanding that a 30% deposit is needed to secure our rendezvous. Regrettably, deposits are non-refundable, but they can be put towards a rescheduled date (once, within a month) if you cancel with ample notice.

FMTY or Travel International:  Deposit 50 %

Deposits can be paid by:

Bank transfer to my discreetly named business account

Cancellation policy:

For shorter dates (under 24 hours): if you cancel more than 96 hours in advance, you can use the deposit for another rescheduled date within a month; if you cancel between 96 and 48 hours in advance, the 50% deposit serves as cancellation fee; if you cancel with less than 48 hour notice, my consideration needs to be paid in full.

For dates between 24 hours and 48 hours: if you cancel more than 14 days in advance, you can use the deposit for another rescheduled date within a month; if you cancel between 14 and 7 days in advance, the 50% deposit serves as cancellation fee; if you cancel with less than 7 day notice, my consideration needs to be paid in full.

For longer dates (over 48 hours): if you cancel more than 30 days in advance, you can use the deposit for another rescheduled date within a month; if you cancel between 30 and 14 days in advance, the 50% deposit serves as cancellation fee; if you cancel with less than 14 day notice, my consideration needs to be paid in full.

For all dates while on tour: the deposit cannot be transferred to a rescheduled date, due to the extremely limited time I have in each city. If you reschedule/cancel more than 14 days in advance, the cancellation fee is the 50% deposit. If you reschedule/cancel less than 14 days in advance, I will need you to pay my full fee as I reserved my extremely limited time in that city for you, I turned down other date requests as it was agreed that I had a confirmed booking with you, I paid for my flights and hotel out of my own pocket to travel to your city, so I simply cannot afford to make a loss. I understand that life happens, but please be a gentleman and I’ll happily see you on my next trip. Should you choose to not comply with my cancellation policy, you will have no chance at seeing me again and I’m afraid I will need to blacklist you to prevent colleagues from going through the same with you.

Discounts

The compensations for my time and companionship are not subject to negotiation. Anything resembling negotiation is considered a sign of disrespect and the invitation is declined.

Donations

The 30% deposit is to be paid at the time of booking and the remaining 70% is to be paid in cash on the day unless pre-agreed otherwise. When we meet, please have the contribution for my companionship placed in an unsealed envelope (large bills, please!) and always present it at the beginning of our meeting. If we meet in public, set the unsealed envelope inside a gift bag and once we get together pass it to me discreetly. You can also pay in advance the full sum if we have pre-agreed.

Incalls

I am currently operating on an outcall-basis only, however, if you are not staying at a hotel or if you don’t want me to visit you at your hotel, I am happy to book a hotel for us, the cost of which will be added to your deposit payment.

Please note for all incalls: do not overstay your welcome, you can simply book a longer date so you will not feel rushed. I will not tolerate any client staying past the booked time without extending the booking, and if you try to do so it will result in you being blacklisted. If you wish to stay in the room after I leave please book the room yourself (aka outcall).

First Impression

You never get a second chance to make a first impression! Now you’re probably thinking “What’s the best way to make a great first impression?”, well, here is the perfect recipe: a well written intro, screening, deposit and planning in less than four emails, gentlemanly behavior start to finish, great hygiene, and bonus points for: an itinerary (if an extended date), a tip and/or something from my wishlist (never expected, but always extremely appreciated!)

Hygiene

I pride myself in having high standards when it comes to my appearance. This includes personal hygiene, and I expect this same care from you in return. For avoidance of doubt: please make sure you have a proper shower and brush your teeth just before our encounter. I reserve the right to terminate the date early should your hygiene not be impeccable. Needless to say, no refund will be given in these circumstances.

Keeping in Touch

Displayed rates are for my time during our date only. If you wish to keep in touch between dates, please enquire about an arrangement.

Notice

While I do try to accommodate last-minute requests, it might not always be possible due to this not being my full-time occupation. To increase the chances of me being available for you on your preferred day and time please allow at least 48 hours notice when you wish us to meet in Los Angeles and at least 5 days notice for travel dates. This is a guideline only. My calendar does fill up quickly – when gentlemen ask me ‘how far in advance should I book?’ my answer is always ‘the sooner the better’. Please note that same-day bookings incur a £300 rush fee.

Privacy

Needless to say, we both have personal lives, careers, families and friends: privacy will always be upheld. Should we ever meet in a social setting, you can expect me to be a total stranger in honour of our confidentiality.

References

Clients: as we all know, time is money: if you want me to write a reference for you so that you can see another companion, please politely gift me an eGift Card with minimum value of $100 or Zelle or Cash app or Venmo (bank transfer is equally fine) prior to sharing my contact for the reference. Please note that the reference fee doesn’t guarantee you a good reference, this is simply an admin fee for the time I need to spend writing a honest reference for you.

Fellow companions: please include your website when you contact me as I will need to be able to verify who you are before I divulge any information about my clients.

Refreshments

All food/drinks consumed by either party during a booking are to be paid entirely by the client.

Safety

I reserve the right to leave the date at any point if you make me feel uncomfortable and/or display unsafe behaviour. Obviously, no refund will be given in these circumstances. This will also result in you being blacklisted. Luckily, all this has only ever happened once, but I do need to make it extremely clear that I do not tolerate any unsafe/rude/pushy behavior.